"I'd played dumbasses a lot. On Mad About You, I played a very dumb waitress and they saw me"
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The throwaway specificity of "a very dumb waitress" is doing heavy lifting. Waitress is a built-in sitcom shorthand: service job, low status, maximum exposure to humiliation-as-joke. "Very dumb" doubles down on the kind of exaggerated cluelessness that plays big in a multi-camera rhythm, where punchlines need to land fast and broad. Kudrow is clocking how that broadness can be mistaken for her limit rather than her tool.
"They saw me" is the line’s sharpest tell. It’s not "they liked me" or "I nailed it". It’s visibility, almost surveillance: gatekeepers noticing a performer inside a disposable part. Subtextually, she’s describing the moment a career pivots not because you were granted dignity, but because you made something out of a role designed to be thin.
Context matters: Kudrow’s pre-Friends path ran through exactly these small, archetypal gigs, and her later success (Phoebe’s cultivated weirdness, the intelligence hiding in plain sight) makes the quote retrospectively pointed. She’s reminding you that comic actors often build their break on characters written to be underestimated - and then have to spend years proving the underestimation was the joke.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kudrow, Lisa. (2026, January 15). I'd played dumbasses a lot. On Mad About You, I played a very dumb waitress and they saw me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-played-dumbasses-a-lot-on-mad-about-you-i-164169/
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Kudrow, Lisa. "I'd played dumbasses a lot. On Mad About You, I played a very dumb waitress and they saw me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-played-dumbasses-a-lot-on-mad-about-you-i-164169/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'd played dumbasses a lot. On Mad About You, I played a very dumb waitress and they saw me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-played-dumbasses-a-lot-on-mad-about-you-i-164169/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





