"I'd rather be at home with 12 people around the table"
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There is a quiet flex in that sentence, and it has nothing to do with fame. Dom DeLuise built a public persona on bigness: big laugh, big appetite, big warmth. So when he says he would rather be at home with 12 people around the table, he is deliberately shrinking the stage. The line lands because it reverses the logic of celebrity. You expect the actor to pine for the set, the spotlight, the room full of strangers applauding on cue. Instead, he names a different audience: the kind that interrupts you, steals the last roll, remembers who you were before the credits.
The specificity of "12" matters. It is not the vague comfort of "family" or "friends"; it’s a crowded table, elbows touching, an almost theatrical blocking that evokes holiday meals, Italian-American kinship, and the old-world idea that love is proved through feeding people. DeLuise isn’t just being sentimental. He’s setting a boundary against the machinery of show business, where attention is abundant but intimacy is scarce.
Contextually, it also reads like a veteran performer’s counter-myth to the hustle: success is not proximity to power, it’s the ability to choose the room you actually want to be in. The subtext is a gentle rebuke to modern ambition. If you can afford to go home - to be ordinary on purpose - you’ve already won.
The specificity of "12" matters. It is not the vague comfort of "family" or "friends"; it’s a crowded table, elbows touching, an almost theatrical blocking that evokes holiday meals, Italian-American kinship, and the old-world idea that love is proved through feeding people. DeLuise isn’t just being sentimental. He’s setting a boundary against the machinery of show business, where attention is abundant but intimacy is scarce.
Contextually, it also reads like a veteran performer’s counter-myth to the hustle: success is not proximity to power, it’s the ability to choose the room you actually want to be in. The subtext is a gentle rebuke to modern ambition. If you can afford to go home - to be ordinary on purpose - you’ve already won.
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| Topic | Family |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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