"I'd rather be at home with 12 people around the table"
About this Quote
The specificity of "12" matters. It is not the vague comfort of "family" or "friends"; it’s a crowded table, elbows touching, an almost theatrical blocking that evokes holiday meals, Italian-American kinship, and the old-world idea that love is proved through feeding people. DeLuise isn’t just being sentimental. He’s setting a boundary against the machinery of show business, where attention is abundant but intimacy is scarce.
Contextually, it also reads like a veteran performer’s counter-myth to the hustle: success is not proximity to power, it’s the ability to choose the room you actually want to be in. The subtext is a gentle rebuke to modern ambition. If you can afford to go home - to be ordinary on purpose - you’ve already won.
Quote Details
| Topic | Family |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
DeLuise, Dom. (2026, January 17). I'd rather be at home with 12 people around the table. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-rather-be-at-home-with-12-people-around-the-59639/
Chicago Style
DeLuise, Dom. "I'd rather be at home with 12 people around the table." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-rather-be-at-home-with-12-people-around-the-59639/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'd rather be at home with 12 people around the table." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-rather-be-at-home-with-12-people-around-the-59639/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.





