"I'd rather have roses on my table than diamonds on my neck"
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Goldman’s intent isn’t simply aesthetic; it’s political. As an anarchist and a critic of marriage-as-institution, she understood how “respectability” works as a kind of soft policing. Diamonds are the emblem of being claimed, of having one’s value affirmed by someone else’s money. Roses signal a different economy: the right to pleasure, softness, and joy without turning the body into a display case for power.
The subtext is also a warning about what gets sacrificed in the name of “practicality.” In industrial modernity, the laboring classes were told to postpone life for survival, while women were told to trade desire for stability. Goldman flips that script: she wants the good life now, not as a reward for compliance. Roses are not escapism here; they’re a demand that dignity include beauty, not just endurance.
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"I'd rather have roses on my table than diamonds on my neck." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/id-rather-have-roses-on-my-table-than-diamonds-on-53340/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.








