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Daily Inspiration Quote by Jean Cocteau

"If a hermit lives in a state of ecstasy, his lack of comfort becomes the height of comfort. He must relinquish it"

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Ecstasy is the trap door here: once you crown deprivation as bliss, you’ve reinvented comfort under a holier name. Cocteau’s line skewers the romantic idea that withdrawal and hardship automatically purify you. The hermit thinks he’s escaped the world’s soft furniture, but the mind is clever enough to upholster a new throne out of self-denial. “His lack of comfort becomes the height of comfort” is a paradox with a sting: the absence turns into a luxury, a private superiority, a dependable identity. And once it’s dependable, it’s no longer ecstatic.

The imperative “He must relinquish it” shifts the quote from observation to discipline. Cocteau isn’t praising asceticism; he’s warning against turning any state - even spiritual rapture - into a possession. The subtext is anti-attachment, but not in the greeting-card sense. It’s a critique of spiritual narcissism: the hermit’s hardship can become a status symbol, a story he tells himself that exempts him from ordinary compromise. If the point is liberation, then “being the person who doesn’t need anything” is still a need.

Context matters: Cocteau lived as a modernist who understood performance, artifice, and the seductions of self-myth. As a director and poet moving through avant-garde Paris, he saw how easily authenticity becomes a style. The quote reads like a stage note for the soul: don’t confuse your costume for transformation, and don’t confuse intensity for freedom. Ecstasy that can be kept isn’t ecstasy; it’s décor.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cocteau, Jean. (2026, January 17). If a hermit lives in a state of ecstasy, his lack of comfort becomes the height of comfort. He must relinquish it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-a-hermit-lives-in-a-state-of-ecstasy-his-lack-65836/

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Cocteau, Jean. "If a hermit lives in a state of ecstasy, his lack of comfort becomes the height of comfort. He must relinquish it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-a-hermit-lives-in-a-state-of-ecstasy-his-lack-65836/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If a hermit lives in a state of ecstasy, his lack of comfort becomes the height of comfort. He must relinquish it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-a-hermit-lives-in-a-state-of-ecstasy-his-lack-65836/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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Jean Cocteau (July 5, 1889 - October 11, 1963) was a Director from France.

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