"If a relationship is founded on love it doesn't end"
About this Quote
Coming from Rosanne Cash, a writer who’s spent decades turning private fractures into public songs, the line reads like an artist’s defense of memory. Love, in this framing, is less a contract than a material. Even when the relationship’s form changes (divorce, distance, death, estrangement), something foundational persists: care becomes friendship, intimacy becomes gratitude, shared history becomes a kind of quiet citizenship in each other’s lives. It’s the anti-scorched-earth worldview.
The subtext is also a rebuke to the romantic-industrial complex that sells happily-ever-after as the only valid outcome. Cash suggests a more adult metric: a relationship can “end” administratively while continuing emotionally, ethically, creatively. It’s an especially songwriterly idea - motifs return, choruses reprise, the melody changes key but doesn’t vanish.
As intent, it functions like a self-protective creed. When you’ve loved well, you don’t have to rewrite the past as a mistake to survive the present.
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| Topic | Relationship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cash, Rosanne. (2026, January 15). If a relationship is founded on love it doesn't end. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-a-relationship-is-founded-on-love-it-doesnt-end-164945/
Chicago Style
Cash, Rosanne. "If a relationship is founded on love it doesn't end." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-a-relationship-is-founded-on-love-it-doesnt-end-164945/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If a relationship is founded on love it doesn't end." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-a-relationship-is-founded-on-love-it-doesnt-end-164945/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













