"If all else fails, the character of a man can be recognized by nothing so surely as by a jest which he takes badly"
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The line’s sharpness comes from its conditional frame: “If all else fails.” Character is slippery; people curate virtue, rehearse humility, perform patience. But humor is an ambush. It arrives sideways, bypassing the careful script, asking for a quick moral reflex. Lichtenberg bets that in that reflex - the flash of anger, sulking, threats, moral outrage deployed as a shield - you catch the person unedited. The subtext is Enlightenment-cynical: reason is the ideal, vanity is the reality, and social life is a lab where the subject keeps trying to fake the results.
Context matters. Lichtenberg was a scientist and aphorist steeped in the culture of salons, pamphlets, and barbed wit. In that world, jests were both entertainment and intellectual sparring, a test of temperament. Taking a joke badly isn’t just humorlessness; it’s a refusal of proportion, an inability to distinguish an insult from a pinprick, a critique from a threat. He’s also warning the joker: what people can’t laugh at tells you where power sits - and where it panics.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lichtenberg, Georg C. (n.d.). If all else fails, the character of a man can be recognized by nothing so surely as by a jest which he takes badly. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-all-else-fails-the-character-of-a-man-can-be-10925/
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Lichtenberg, Georg C. "If all else fails, the character of a man can be recognized by nothing so surely as by a jest which he takes badly." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-all-else-fails-the-character-of-a-man-can-be-10925/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If all else fails, the character of a man can be recognized by nothing so surely as by a jest which he takes badly." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-all-else-fails-the-character-of-a-man-can-be-10925/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.











