"If all men knew what others say of them, there would not be four friends in the world"
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The subtext is less “people are bad” than “people are fragile.” We want to be admired, or at least not contemptible, and we can’t easily metabolize the casual criticisms, envy, and boredom that circulate in any community. Pascal, writing in the 17th century’s salon culture and religious ferment, is skeptical of the era’s polished manners: civility isn’t proof of virtue, it’s a technology for living together despite our worst impulses. His Jansenist-tinged anthropology insists that the heart is divided against itself; we don’t even fully know our own motives, so the idea that others’ private talk would be clean or fair is laughable.
What makes the line work is its ruthless compression: it doesn’t moralize, it quantifies. Friendship survives not because we’re endlessly forgiving, but because we’re blessedly, strategically ignorant.
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Pascal, Blaise. (2026, January 15). If all men knew what others say of them, there would not be four friends in the world. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-all-men-knew-what-others-say-of-them-there-35152/
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"If all men knew what others say of them, there would not be four friends in the world." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-all-men-knew-what-others-say-of-them-there-35152/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.













