"If all misfortunes were laid in one common heap whence everyone must take an equal portion, most people would be contented to take their own and depart"
About this Quote
The intent is diagnostic. Socrates isn’t telling people to “be grateful” in the modern, self-care sense; he’s exposing a cognitive error that corrodes judgment. We treat our misfortunes as uniquely intolerable because we know them intimately, while other people’s pain stays abstract, even romanticized. The “common heap” is a thought experiment that forces specificity: you don’t get to swap your troubles for “something better,” only for someone else’s full, unedited reality.
The subtext is civic as much as personal. In democratic Athens, complaint could be a form of status politics: my burden is heavier, my life is more unfair, therefore I deserve more attention, more exemption, more power. Socrates punctures that performance with an almost cruel calm. If we truly faced the total inventory of human trouble - poverty, illness, disgrace, grief - we’d stop shopping for victimhood and start managing what’s ours.
It works because it weaponizes imagination against itself, turning comparison from a resentment machine into a humility engine.
Quote Details
| Topic | Contentment |
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| Source | Later attribution: Attitude Is a Choice—So Pick a Good One (Bob Phillips, 2023) modern compilationISBN: 9780736986854 · ID: PR-8EAAAQBAJ
Evidence: ... If all misfortunes were laid in one common heap whence everyone must take an equal portion , most people would be contented to take their own and depart . SOCRATES Acceptance of one's life has nothing to do with resignation Attitude and ... Other candidates (1) Plutarch's Morals (includes "Consolation to Apollonius") (Socrates, 1704)50.0% And here that opinion of Socrates comes in very pertinently, who thought that if all our misfortunes were laid in one... |
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Socrates. "If all misfortunes were laid in one common heap whence everyone must take an equal portion, most people would be contented to take their own and depart." FixQuotes. February 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-all-misfortunes-were-laid-in-one-common-heap-27083/.
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"If all misfortunes were laid in one common heap whence everyone must take an equal portion, most people would be contented to take their own and depart." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-all-misfortunes-were-laid-in-one-common-heap-27083/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.













