"If any person wish to be idle, let them fall in love"
About this Quote
The subtext is more cutting than cynical. Love is portrayed as a voluntary self-sabotage that masquerades as fate. You choose it, then pretend you couldnt help it, and suddenly all your lost productivity has an alibi with good hair. Thats classic Ovid: erotic experience treated as both serious game and game that takes you seriously. He understands how desire creates narrative--how the lover becomes a playwright casting themselves in scenes that havent happened yet.
Context matters. In Augustan Rome, public virtue and private appetite were in tense coexistence: laws moralized sexuality even as elite culture eroticized it. Ovid, the poet of Ars Amatoria, made a career out of turning love into technique, and that irreverence helped get him exiled. This quip reads like a postcard from that edge: affectionate toward passion, suspicious of its claims, and keenly aware that romance is one of the oldest technologies for turning freedom into fixation.
Quote Details
| Topic | Romantic |
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| Source | Evidence: ... If any person wish to be idle, let them fall in love.” - Ovid “Nobody loves a woman because she is handsome or ugly, stupid or intelligent. We love because we love.” - Honore de Balzac “Every age has its storytelling form, and video ... Other candidates (1) Amores (Book 1, Elegy 9: "Militat omnis amans") (Ovid)50.0% Qui nolet fieri desidiosus, amet! (Book I, poem 9, line 46). The English quote you provided (“If any person wish to b... |
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