"If civilians are going to be killed, I would rather have them be their civilians than our civilians"
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The specific intent is transactional deterrence. It’s the logic behind hardline postures in total war and Cold War brinkmanship: if violence is inevitable, push the cost outward so your own public stays insulated. That insulation is political as much as ethical. Leaders who can keep “our civilians” safe maintain legitimacy; leaders who can’t face backlash. Symington’s sentence is frank about the unspoken driver of many hawkish policies: domestic stability, not abstract righteousness.
The subtext is also defensive. By accepting civilian deaths as a given, he dodges the harder question of whether the policy causing those deaths is justified or avoidable. The statement doesn’t argue for necessity; it argues for preference. That gap is the moral tell.
Context matters because Symington lived through an era when civilian targeting became thinkable at scale - strategic bombing, nuclear planning, “credibility” as a doctrine. The quote captures the chilling normalization of catastrophe: once civilian death is assumed, the only remaining debate is where it should fall.
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| Topic | War |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Symington, Stuart. (2026, January 15). If civilians are going to be killed, I would rather have them be their civilians than our civilians. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-civilians-are-going-to-be-killed-i-would-154867/
Chicago Style
Symington, Stuart. "If civilians are going to be killed, I would rather have them be their civilians than our civilians." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-civilians-are-going-to-be-killed-i-would-154867/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If civilians are going to be killed, I would rather have them be their civilians than our civilians." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-civilians-are-going-to-be-killed-i-would-154867/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


