"If fortune favors you, do not be elated; if she frowns, do not despond"
About this Quote
The genius is the double command: don’t get high on good luck, don’t collapse under bad. It’s not just Stoic self-help; it’s social survival advice for a courtly culture where emotional display can be read as entitlement in triumph and weakness in defeat. “Elated” hints at the arrogance that invites correction; “despond” hints at the kind of despair that makes you politically disposable. Ausonius, who moved between provincial teaching and imperial favor, knew that instability first-hand. The quote reads like a polished ethic for anyone living inside an empire of sudden reversals.
Subtextually, it’s also a reallocation of agency. If fortune is fickle, then your dignity can’t be outsourced to her. The line trains you to treat success as contingent and failure as temporary, not because the cosmos is fair, but because your composure is the one resource not fully governed by the state, the crowd, or the dice.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
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| Source | Later attribution: How To Be Happy, Successful And Rich (Reginald V. Johnson, 2005) modern compilationISBN: 9780977245802 · ID: 5ji8PhlDYi0C
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... If fortune favors you do not be elated ; if she frowns do not despond " Ausonius By now many of you have already discovered , by reading the preceding chapters , you are already rich . As you know one can be rich in many ways ... |
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