"If guys don't respect themselves, they don't respect other people. That's times and personalities. And all of them are not that way. But it don't take but one or two to screw up the whole crowd"
About this Quote
The phrase “That’s times and personalities” does quiet work. Petty’s acknowledging that attitudes aren’t born in a vacuum. They’re shaped by era, culture, and the kind of person who’s drawn to go 200 miles an hour in a tin can. It’s a country-simple way to nod at sociology without pretending to be a professor. Then he pivots: “And all of them are not that way.” That’s the veteran’s fairness clause, refusing to paint every “guy” with the same brush, even while warning you about patterns.
The closer is the real payload: “it don’t take but one or two to screw up the whole crowd.” That’s NASCAR as metaphor for any tight ecosystem - a garage, a team, a workplace, a community. Culture isn’t made by speeches; it’s enforced by tolerances. Petty is describing how quickly one or two unchecked egos can normalize disrespect, sour a room, and raise the risk for everyone else. The subtext: leadership is partly about refusing to let the bad apples set the speed limit.
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| Topic | Respect |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Petty, Richard. (2026, January 15). If guys don't respect themselves, they don't respect other people. That's times and personalities. And all of them are not that way. But it don't take but one or two to screw up the whole crowd. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-guys-dont-respect-themselves-they-dont-respect-136571/
Chicago Style
Petty, Richard. "If guys don't respect themselves, they don't respect other people. That's times and personalities. And all of them are not that way. But it don't take but one or two to screw up the whole crowd." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-guys-dont-respect-themselves-they-dont-respect-136571/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If guys don't respect themselves, they don't respect other people. That's times and personalities. And all of them are not that way. But it don't take but one or two to screw up the whole crowd." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-guys-dont-respect-themselves-they-dont-respect-136571/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











