"If guys don't respect themselves, they don't respect other people. That's times and personalities. And all of them are not that way. But it don't take but one or two to screw up the whole crowd"
About this Quote
The phrase “That’s times and personalities” does quiet work. Petty’s acknowledging that attitudes aren’t born in a vacuum. They’re shaped by era, culture, and the kind of person who’s drawn to go 200 miles an hour in a tin can. It’s a country-simple way to nod at sociology without pretending to be a professor. Then he pivots: “And all of them are not that way.” That’s the veteran’s fairness clause, refusing to paint every “guy” with the same brush, even while warning you about patterns.
The closer is the real payload: “it don’t take but one or two to screw up the whole crowd.” That’s NASCAR as metaphor for any tight ecosystem - a garage, a team, a workplace, a community. Culture isn’t made by speeches; it’s enforced by tolerances. Petty is describing how quickly one or two unchecked egos can normalize disrespect, sour a room, and raise the risk for everyone else. The subtext: leadership is partly about refusing to let the bad apples set the speed limit.
Quote Details
| Topic | Respect |
|---|---|
| Source | Unverified source: Orlando Sentinel: Petty issues caution flag of his own (Richard Petty, 2002)
Evidence:
Among them, "There's a lack of respect for each other," Petty said here the other day. "The guys don't respect themselves, so they don't respect other people. Not all of them are that way. But it doesn't take but one or two to screw up the whole crowd.". The earliest verifiable primary-source app... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Petty, Richard. (2026, March 12). If guys don't respect themselves, they don't respect other people. That's times and personalities. And all of them are not that way. But it don't take but one or two to screw up the whole crowd. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-guys-dont-respect-themselves-they-dont-respect-136571/
Chicago Style
Petty, Richard. "If guys don't respect themselves, they don't respect other people. That's times and personalities. And all of them are not that way. But it don't take but one or two to screw up the whole crowd." FixQuotes. March 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-guys-dont-respect-themselves-they-dont-respect-136571/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If guys don't respect themselves, they don't respect other people. That's times and personalities. And all of them are not that way. But it don't take but one or two to screw up the whole crowd." FixQuotes, 12 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-guys-dont-respect-themselves-they-dont-respect-136571/. Accessed 28 Mar. 2026.











