"If I am walking with two other men, each of them will serve as my teacher. I will pick out the good points of the one and imitate them, and the bad points of the other and correct them in myself"
About this Quote
The subtext is sharper than it looks. “Teacher” here doesn’t mean a credentialed sage; it means a mirror. One companion becomes a model, the other a warning, and both are useful. Crucially, Confucius doesn’t grant himself the comfort of judging from a safe distance. The “bad points of the other” aren’t ammunition for gossip; they’re raw material for self-correction. It’s a preemptive strike against the most seductive human habit: converting observation into superiority. The quote trains the reader to reroute that impulse inward.
Historically, this is also political. In a period of social fragmentation and anxious status competition, Confucian ethics tried to stabilize the world by stabilizing the self: ritual propriety, humility, and relentless self-scrutiny. The brilliance is its portability. No temple required, no solitude, no grand revelation. Just three people walking, and a demand that you stop wasting encounters on judgment and start turning them into character.
Quote Details
| Topic | Chinese Proverbs |
|---|---|
| Source | Confucius, The Analects (Lunyu), Book I (1), Chapter 4 — commonly translated (e.g., James Legge) as: “When I walk along with two others, they may serve me as my teachers...” |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Confucius. (2026, January 15). If I am walking with two other men, each of them will serve as my teacher. I will pick out the good points of the one and imitate them, and the bad points of the other and correct them in myself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-am-walking-with-two-other-men-each-of-them-116/
Chicago Style
Confucius. "If I am walking with two other men, each of them will serve as my teacher. I will pick out the good points of the one and imitate them, and the bad points of the other and correct them in myself." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-am-walking-with-two-other-men-each-of-them-116/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I am walking with two other men, each of them will serve as my teacher. I will pick out the good points of the one and imitate them, and the bad points of the other and correct them in myself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-am-walking-with-two-other-men-each-of-them-116/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









