"If I can get you to laugh with me, you like me better, which makes you more open to my ideas. And if I can persuade you to laugh at the particular point I make, by laughing at it you acknowledge its truth"
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The second step is sharper, almost prosecutorial: getting you to laugh at “the particular point” means you don’t just feel good around him; you publicly concede something. Laughter is a tiny social vote. It signals recognition, not just of a joke’s structure, but of a pattern in the world - hypocrisy, vanity, bureaucratic absurdity. The subtext is that humor bypasses the usual ideological gatekeepers because it feels voluntary. No one wants to be the person who “doesn’t get it,” so the laugh becomes a low-stakes confession: yes, that’s real; yes, I’ve seen that; maybe I’m implicated.
Cleese’s context matters: Monty Python and his later work thrive on puncturing authority by making it look ridiculous. Ridicule is a form of power redistribution. When the judge, the officer, the priest, the pompous intellectual becomes funny, they become manageable. His quote is basically a manifesto for satire as soft coercion: you enter for entertainment, then discover you’ve agreed to something on the way out.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cleese, John. (2026, January 18). If I can get you to laugh with me, you like me better, which makes you more open to my ideas. And if I can persuade you to laugh at the particular point I make, by laughing at it you acknowledge its truth. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-can-get-you-to-laugh-with-me-you-like-me-5771/
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Cleese, John. "If I can get you to laugh with me, you like me better, which makes you more open to my ideas. And if I can persuade you to laugh at the particular point I make, by laughing at it you acknowledge its truth." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-can-get-you-to-laugh-with-me-you-like-me-5771/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I can get you to laugh with me, you like me better, which makes you more open to my ideas. And if I can persuade you to laugh at the particular point I make, by laughing at it you acknowledge its truth." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-can-get-you-to-laugh-with-me-you-like-me-5771/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








