"If I could do one thing over, I'd have been nicer to my parents"
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The line’s emotional power comes from its scale. “Been nicer” is disarmingly small, almost childlike; it dodges melodrama and, in doing so, feels more credible. Niceness isn’t a grand moral stance - it’s the daily tone, the eye-roll you didn’t swallow, the call you postponed, the reflex to assume your parents will always be there to absorb your impatience. The subtext is about time’s asymmetry: parents age while you’re busy becoming yourself, and the bill for that self-making sometimes arrives as guilt.
Jones’s context matters, too. As an actress famous for playing an ice-cool, controlled character on Mad Men, she’s often associated with a kind of polished distance. This admission punctures that image without turning into a branding exercise. It also fits a cultural moment when adulthood is increasingly narrated through therapy language and family reappraisal: we’re encouraged to interrogate our upbringing, but not always to reckon with how we treated the people who raised us once we had the upper hand.
What makes it stick is its modesty. It’s not a plea for sainthood, just a wish to have wasted less tenderness.
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| Topic | Family |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jones, January. (2026, February 19). If I could do one thing over, I'd have been nicer to my parents. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-could-do-one-thing-over-id-have-been-nicer-54960/
Chicago Style
Jones, January. "If I could do one thing over, I'd have been nicer to my parents." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-could-do-one-thing-over-id-have-been-nicer-54960/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I could do one thing over, I'd have been nicer to my parents." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-could-do-one-thing-over-id-have-been-nicer-54960/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.






