"If I despised myself, it would be no compensation if everyone saluted me, and if I respect myself, it does not trouble me if others hold me lightly"
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The construction matters. Nordau pairs two symmetrical clauses to dramatize a psychological law: self-contempt turns praise into insult; self-respect turns neglect into background noise. That tight mirroring is the rhetorical equivalent of a controlled experiment, and it reflects the late-19th-century critic’s obsession with diagnosing modern life. Nordau wrote in an era when celebrity, mass politics, and metropolitan culture were accelerating, when “salute” started to mean something like public reputation rather than earned honor. His critique is less about stoic virtue than about the fragility of the modern ego under spectacle.
Subtext: he’s warning the ambitious reader that chasing validation is a form of self-harm dressed as strategy. What looks like confidence here is actually a demand: build an interior standard sturdy enough that the crowd can’t purchase you with admiration or punish you with disregard.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Nordau, Max. (2026, January 16). If I despised myself, it would be no compensation if everyone saluted me, and if I respect myself, it does not trouble me if others hold me lightly. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-despised-myself-it-would-be-no-compensation-122990/
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Nordau, Max. "If I despised myself, it would be no compensation if everyone saluted me, and if I respect myself, it does not trouble me if others hold me lightly." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-despised-myself-it-would-be-no-compensation-122990/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I despised myself, it would be no compensation if everyone saluted me, and if I respect myself, it does not trouble me if others hold me lightly." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-despised-myself-it-would-be-no-compensation-122990/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.












