"If I fell down and hurt myself, I never cried. There was no one to hear me"
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As an actress, Fletcher is also quietly talking about performance. Tears are usually treated as the most authentic proof of feeling, but she flips that assumption. If emotion requires a witness to become legible, then “never cried” isn’t emotional emptiness; it’s a child adapting to a world that wouldn’t register her distress. That’s a hard origin story for anyone, but especially resonant for a performer whose job is to make inner life visible and audible to strangers in the dark.
Contextually, the line echoes a mid-century cultural expectation that kids should “get on with it,” while revealing the private cost of that posture. It’s also a neat, brutal explanation for how self-reliance gets built: not as a virtue chosen, but as a necessity imposed. The intent feels clarifying, not sensational - a way of naming the loneliness behind a polished surface, and maybe reclaiming it as something finally heard.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fletcher, Louise. (2026, January 16). If I fell down and hurt myself, I never cried. There was no one to hear me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-fell-down-and-hurt-myself-i-never-cried-107896/
Chicago Style
Fletcher, Louise. "If I fell down and hurt myself, I never cried. There was no one to hear me." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-fell-down-and-hurt-myself-i-never-cried-107896/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I fell down and hurt myself, I never cried. There was no one to hear me." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-fell-down-and-hurt-myself-i-never-cried-107896/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.







