"If I get married, I want to be very married"
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It also works because of who is saying it. Hepburn's public image was purity and poise, the woman people projected ideals onto: elegance, restraint, the eternal ingenue. That mythology often demanded she be available as a fantasy, even when her real life included war trauma, complicated relationships, and intense privacy. "Very married" reads like a refusal to be circulated as a symbol. If she is going to step into a traditional script, it will be on her terms, with total commitment rather than public ambiguity.
Culturally, the line lands as a quiet critique of Hollywood's half-marriages: unions made for headlines, alliances maintained for optics, love marketed as lifestyle. Hepburn doesn't romanticize marriage; she raises the stakes. Commitment becomes not a surrender but a standard.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hepburn, Audrey. (2026, January 15). If I get married, I want to be very married. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-get-married-i-want-to-be-very-married-29959/
Chicago Style
Hepburn, Audrey. "If I get married, I want to be very married." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-get-married-i-want-to-be-very-married-29959/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I get married, I want to be very married." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-get-married-i-want-to-be-very-married-29959/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



