"If I go to a seminar and someone like you or someone like him is talking, I'm never part of the group that rushes him directly afterward. I always wait in the back corner with my head down until everyone is gone, and then I go up and do my thing"
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The intent reads as respect with a sharp edge. He’s not flattering the speaker with a fan’s urgency; he’s protecting the speaker, and himself, from the post-talk scrum where conversation becomes performance. By delaying, he’s opting out of the social marketplace of proximity: no jockeying, no signaling, no “seen with” rituals. Subtext: the real exchange he wants can’t happen in public, because public turns everyone into an audience, even in a seminar.
Context matters. Godfrey’s era invented mass intimacy: the friendly voice in your living room, the host who felt like family. That kind of fame breeds skepticism about manufactured warmth. So this backstage posture isn’t shyness; it’s craft. He’s staging a different kind of authenticity, one that arrives only after the room stops watching. “Then I go up and do my thing” lands with performer’s irony: even the humble approach is still a routine, but it’s a routine designed to make the interaction finally real.
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| Topic | Humility |
|---|---|
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| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Godfrey, Arthur. (n.d.). If I go to a seminar and someone like you or someone like him is talking, I'm never part of the group that rushes him directly afterward. I always wait in the back corner with my head down until everyone is gone, and then I go up and do my thing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-go-to-a-seminar-and-someone-like-you-or-98050/
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Godfrey, Arthur. "If I go to a seminar and someone like you or someone like him is talking, I'm never part of the group that rushes him directly afterward. I always wait in the back corner with my head down until everyone is gone, and then I go up and do my thing." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-go-to-a-seminar-and-someone-like-you-or-98050/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I go to a seminar and someone like you or someone like him is talking, I'm never part of the group that rushes him directly afterward. I always wait in the back corner with my head down until everyone is gone, and then I go up and do my thing." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-go-to-a-seminar-and-someone-like-you-or-98050/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.







