"If I had my way everyone would have a psychiatrist. When the brain is sick and you must throw up, you do it by being purged in a psychiatrist's office"
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The genius of the quote is its bodily metaphor. Mental illness is framed not as a moral failing or a tragic personality trait, but as something physical, involuntary, and treatable. “When the brain is sick” collapses the false border between “real” illness and emotional suffering; the brain is an organ, and sometimes it needs a clinician. The word “purged” is deliberately violent: therapy as expulsion, not refinement. She’s not selling self-actualization. She’s describing relief, the kind that comes from finally getting the poison out.
There’s also an implicit critique of celebrity culture’s coping mechanisms. For an actress in Lamarr’s generation, “keeping it together” was part of the job, especially for women expected to be decorative and silent about pain. Her fantasy that “everyone would have a psychiatrist” reads as both egalitarian and quietly accusatory: if we normalized care, fewer people would have to self-medicate, implode off-camera, or pretend they’re fine because the world prefers them ornamental.
In a few stark images, Lamarr reframes therapy as maintenance, not weakness, and makes the stigma look like the truly irrational thing.
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| Topic | Mental Health |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lamarr, Hedy. (2026, January 17). If I had my way everyone would have a psychiatrist. When the brain is sick and you must throw up, you do it by being purged in a psychiatrist's office. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-had-my-way-everyone-would-have-a-48857/
Chicago Style
Lamarr, Hedy. "If I had my way everyone would have a psychiatrist. When the brain is sick and you must throw up, you do it by being purged in a psychiatrist's office." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-had-my-way-everyone-would-have-a-48857/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I had my way everyone would have a psychiatrist. When the brain is sick and you must throw up, you do it by being purged in a psychiatrist's office." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-had-my-way-everyone-would-have-a-48857/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.









