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Daily Inspiration Quote by Robert Mapplethorpe

"If I have to change my lifestyle, I don't want to live"

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A dare disguised as a death wish, Mapplethorpe's line is less melodrama than contract: art and desire are nonnegotiable, and any bargain that requires their diminishment is a kind of living death. Coming from a photographer who turned the body into both altar and battleground, the quote reads like a refusal to let respectability do what censorship couldn't - domesticate him.

The intent is blunt but strategic. "Lifestyle" is a loaded word, the polite 1980s euphemism used to cordon off gay life, BDSM communities, and any sexuality that made mainstream America nervous. Mapplethorpe throws it back with contempt: if you insist on reducing identity to a "lifestyle choice", then you're also insisting it can be corrected. His response is to treat that correction as annihilation.

The subtext lands hardest in the shadow of AIDS and the culture wars that followed his work. Mapplethorpe lived through the moment when public health panic and moral crusade fused, when artists and queer people were told to be quieter, cleaner, safer - in other words, less visible. His photographs, with their formal elegance and explicit charge, already performed the rebuttal: beauty does not need permission.

What makes the line work is its absolutism. It denies the audience the comforting middle ground of compromise. There's no plea for tolerance, no request to be understood. It's a stance that dares power to reveal itself: if society demands your erasure as the price of staying alive, what kind of life was it offering in the first place?

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Mapplethorpe, Robert. (2026, January 18). If I have to change my lifestyle, I don't want to live. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-have-to-change-my-lifestyle-i-dont-want-to-11690/

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Mapplethorpe, Robert. "If I have to change my lifestyle, I don't want to live." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-have-to-change-my-lifestyle-i-dont-want-to-11690/.

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"If I have to change my lifestyle, I don't want to live." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-have-to-change-my-lifestyle-i-dont-want-to-11690/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Robert Mapplethorpe

Robert Mapplethorpe (November 4, 1946 - March 9, 1989) was a Photographer from USA.

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