"If I knew what I was so anxious about, I wouldn't be so anxious"
About this Quote
McLaughlin’s wit is compact and slightly brutal. The sentence is structured like a tidy piece of common sense, but it quietly mocks the fantasy that our inner lives are legible and manageable. It’s the journalist’s gift for turning a messy experience into a clean line, and then using that cleanliness to expose the mess. The humor is dry, not cute: it’s the recognition that the rational mind is often a poor manager of the nervous system.
Context matters. Writing in mid-century America, McLaughlin was surrounded by a culture that prized composure, productivity, and “getting on with it.” Her aphorism reads like a small rebellion against that posture. It grants anxiety legitimacy without romanticizing it, and it punctures the moralizing idea that worry is always a response to something concrete you should simply “deal with.”
The subtext is empathetic: if you can’t explain your unease, you’re not failing at self-knowledge; you’re experiencing the defining feature of anxiety. The joke is the diagnosis.
Quote Details
| Topic | Anxiety |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McLaughlin, Mignon. (2026, January 17). If I knew what I was so anxious about, I wouldn't be so anxious. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-knew-what-i-was-so-anxious-about-i-wouldnt-70502/
Chicago Style
McLaughlin, Mignon. "If I knew what I was so anxious about, I wouldn't be so anxious." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-knew-what-i-was-so-anxious-about-i-wouldnt-70502/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I knew what I was so anxious about, I wouldn't be so anxious." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-knew-what-i-was-so-anxious-about-i-wouldnt-70502/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.









