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Daily Inspiration Quote by Mignon McLaughlin

"If I knew what I was so anxious about, I wouldn't be so anxious"

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Anxiety, McLaughlin implies, isn’t just fear; it’s fear without an object, a smoke alarm that won’t tell you where the fire is. The line lands because it stages anxiety as a logic problem with no solution: if the mind could name the threat, it could start negotiating with it. But the very condition of anxiety is that it resists naming. You’re left with a self-sustaining loop where not-knowing becomes its own evidence that something must be wrong.

McLaughlin’s wit is compact and slightly brutal. The sentence is structured like a tidy piece of common sense, but it quietly mocks the fantasy that our inner lives are legible and manageable. It’s the journalist’s gift for turning a messy experience into a clean line, and then using that cleanliness to expose the mess. The humor is dry, not cute: it’s the recognition that the rational mind is often a poor manager of the nervous system.

Context matters. Writing in mid-century America, McLaughlin was surrounded by a culture that prized composure, productivity, and “getting on with it.” Her aphorism reads like a small rebellion against that posture. It grants anxiety legitimacy without romanticizing it, and it punctures the moralizing idea that worry is always a response to something concrete you should simply “deal with.”

The subtext is empathetic: if you can’t explain your unease, you’re not failing at self-knowledge; you’re experiencing the defining feature of anxiety. The joke is the diagnosis.

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Mignon McLaughlin

Mignon McLaughlin (June 6, 1913 - December 20, 1983) was a Journalist from USA.

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