"If I want to be a better person for whoever is in my life, I have to learn"
About this Quote
Then there’s the pivot: “I have to learn.” Not “train,” not “work harder,” not even “change.” Learn suggests humility, but also a slow, imperfect process - the opposite of the instant redemption arc sports culture loves to sell. In the context of Gascoigne’s public story, that word feels like a quiet rejection of the idea that raw talent or public affection can compensate for untreated pain. It implies accountability without spelling out the charges.
The line also flips the typical athlete narrative. Athletes are rewarded for willpower and endurance; Gascoigne frames growth as education, almost rehabilitation - learning how to be with people, how not to injure them with your chaos. It’s intimate without being sentimental, and that restraint makes it land: a man famous for spectacle choosing the plainest possible verb, admitting that the hardest skill isn’t on the pitch.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gascoigne, Paul. (2026, January 16). If I want to be a better person for whoever is in my life, I have to learn. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-want-to-be-a-better-person-for-whoever-is-in-92843/
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Gascoigne, Paul. "If I want to be a better person for whoever is in my life, I have to learn." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-want-to-be-a-better-person-for-whoever-is-in-92843/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I want to be a better person for whoever is in my life, I have to learn." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-want-to-be-a-better-person-for-whoever-is-in-92843/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












