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"If I was on a march at the moment I would be saying to everyone: 'Be honest with each other. Admit there are limitless possibilities in relationships, and love as many people as you can in whatever way you want, and get rid of your inhibitions, and we'll all be happy"

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McKellen’s line lands like a veteran performer stepping offstage and straight into the crowd, skipping theory and going for the emotional choke point: honesty as a political act. Coming from an actor whose public life has been entwined with LGBTQ+ visibility, the “march” isn’t abstract civic virtue; it’s code for pride, protest, and the perpetual negotiation over who gets to love without punishment. He’s not arguing policy. He’s selling permission.

The phrasing is doing quiet work. “If I was on a march” frames the thought as solidarity without claiming the microphone outright, a modesty move from someone famous enough to hijack any room. Then he pivots to imperatives that sound almost disarmingly simple: be honest, admit possibilities, love many, lose inhibitions. The subtext is that repression is learned and enforced; liberation is contagious if you give people a script to follow. “Limitless possibilities” deliberately blows past the narrow couple-form as the only respectable unit. It’s an invitation to imagine queerness not as a niche identity but as a broader ethic of relationship-making: flexible, negotiated, self-defined.

The most revealing word is “happy.” It’s utopian, slightly naive, and strategically so. McKellen leverages that optimism the way actors leverage sincerity: not because it’s airtight, but because it makes the alternative look absurd. If the only thing standing between us and “we’ll all be happy” is inhibition and dishonesty, then the moral burden shifts to the systems that profit from shame.

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Mckellen, Ian. (2026, January 17). If I was on a march at the moment I would be saying to everyone: 'Be honest with each other. Admit there are limitless possibilities in relationships, and love as many people as you can in whatever way you want, and get rid of your inhibitions, and we'll all be happy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-was-on-a-march-at-the-moment-i-would-be-56188/

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Mckellen, Ian. "If I was on a march at the moment I would be saying to everyone: 'Be honest with each other. Admit there are limitless possibilities in relationships, and love as many people as you can in whatever way you want, and get rid of your inhibitions, and we'll all be happy." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-was-on-a-march-at-the-moment-i-would-be-56188/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I was on a march at the moment I would be saying to everyone: 'Be honest with each other. Admit there are limitless possibilities in relationships, and love as many people as you can in whatever way you want, and get rid of your inhibitions, and we'll all be happy." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-was-on-a-march-at-the-moment-i-would-be-56188/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Ian Mckellen (born May 25, 1939) is a Actor from England.

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