"If I was to get turned down by a girl, I'd just give up and say, 'Oh well.'"
About this Quote
The intent feels practical: normalize rejection as information, not humiliation. But the subtext is where it gets culturally legible. "I'd just give up" isn't self-loathing; it's boundary-making. He's signaling that persistence isn't automatically romantic, that chasing isn't a virtue when someone has said no. In an era that has been re-litigating the rom-com myth that refusal is a challenge, the shrug is doing ideological work. It frames respect as ease, not effort.
It also functions as reputational insulation. Celebrities are constantly asked to perform confidence; admitting rejection is safe only if you can immediately render it frictionless. "Oh well" is the masculine equivalent of "no big deal", a preemptive strike against looking wounded. The charm is that it's both emotionally mature and strategically casual: vulnerability, edited down to a syllable. In the post-#MeToo cultural climate, that edit lands as a quiet corrective to the old idea that a "real man" keeps pushing.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hemsworth, Liam. (2026, January 15). If I was to get turned down by a girl, I'd just give up and say, 'Oh well.'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-was-to-get-turned-down-by-a-girl-id-just-172460/
Chicago Style
Hemsworth, Liam. "If I was to get turned down by a girl, I'd just give up and say, 'Oh well.'." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-was-to-get-turned-down-by-a-girl-id-just-172460/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I was to get turned down by a girl, I'd just give up and say, 'Oh well.'." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-was-to-get-turned-down-by-a-girl-id-just-172460/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.








