"If I were offered a cochlear implant today, I would prefer not to have one. But that's not a statement about hearing aids or cochlear implants. It's about who you are"
About this Quote
The phrasing does two things at once. “If I were offered” conjures the soft coercion that often shadows disability: the offer that isn’t quite an offer, because the “right” answer is baked in. Then the pivot, “But that’s not… It’s about who you are,” shifts the frame from hardware to selfhood. Matlin isn’t arguing that cochlear implants are inherently wrong; she’s insisting that choosing not to “fix” yourself can be a legitimate act of self-recognition, not stubbornness or denial.
The subtext is also about power: who gets to define normal, who gets to narrate someone else’s life as a tragedy awaiting a cure. Coming from Matlin - a Deaf actress who has succeeded inside an industry obsessed with legibility and conformity - it reads as both personal boundary and cultural critique. She’s protecting Deaf culture (language, community, pride) from being flattened into a clinical before-and-after story. In a world that confuses accommodation with assimilation, Matlin’s point is blunt: technology can help, but it shouldn’t get to decide what kind of person you’re allowed to be.
Quote Details
| Topic | Human Rights |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Interview with Marlee Matlin Actress and Academy Award Wi... (Marlee Matlin, 2004)
Evidence:
I told Oprah that if I were offered a cochlear implant today, I would prefer not to have one. But that's not a statement about hearing aids or cochlear implants or whether one signs or speaks -- it's about who you are and how happy you are with your life.. This wording appears in the primary transcript of an AudiologyOnline interview (Douglas Beck interviewing Marlee Matlin), dated October 18, 2004. The quote is commonly truncated online to end with “It’s about who you are.” In the primary source, Matlin explicitly frames it as something she said to Oprah and immediately adds the fuller context (“...and how happy you are with your life.”). No page number applies because it’s a web interview transcript; the relevant passage is in the Q&A section where Beck asks about cochlear implants and hearing aids. |
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Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Matlin, Marlee. (2026, February 20). If I were offered a cochlear implant today, I would prefer not to have one. But that's not a statement about hearing aids or cochlear implants. It's about who you are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-were-offered-a-cochlear-implant-today-i-153813/
Chicago Style
Matlin, Marlee. "If I were offered a cochlear implant today, I would prefer not to have one. But that's not a statement about hearing aids or cochlear implants. It's about who you are." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-were-offered-a-cochlear-implant-today-i-153813/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I were offered a cochlear implant today, I would prefer not to have one. But that's not a statement about hearing aids or cochlear implants. It's about who you are." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-were-offered-a-cochlear-implant-today-i-153813/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.

