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Faith & Spirit Quote by Arthur Ashe

"If I were to say, "God, why me?" about the bad things, then I should have said, "God, why me?" about the good things that happened in my life"

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Ashe flips a familiar cry of victimhood into an audit of entitlement. “God, why me?” is usually deployed as a moral protest: I didn’t earn this suffering, so the universe owes me an explanation. His point is that the protest only feels natural because we quietly treat good fortune as our rightful baseline. If you want to interrogate the fairness of pain, you have to interrogate the “unfairness” of joy with the same intensity. That symmetry is the knife twist.

The intent isn’t pious resignation; it’s ethical consistency. Ashe isn’t arguing that tragedy is acceptable. He’s arguing that the story we tell about it matters: either life is a ledger where we’re due rewards and exempt from random loss, or it’s a chaotic distribution of gifts and blows where gratitude and grief can coexist without turning into a lawsuit against fate.

Context sharpens the line. Ashe was a Black champion in a largely white sport, a public intellectual in an era that asked athletes to “stick to sports,” and later a man living with HIV contracted through a blood transfusion. He knew what it meant to be singled out by systems and by chance. That makes the quote feel less like self-help and more like a disciplined refusal to let suffering license bitterness, or let success license arrogance.

The subtext: don’t build a worldview that only activates when you’re losing. If you demand cosmic explanations, be prepared to interrogate your own luck just as ruthlessly.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ashe, Arthur. (2026, January 15). If I were to say, "God, why me?" about the bad things, then I should have said, "God, why me?" about the good things that happened in my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-were-to-say-god-why-me-about-the-bad-things-21927/

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Ashe, Arthur. "If I were to say, "God, why me?" about the bad things, then I should have said, "God, why me?" about the good things that happened in my life." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-were-to-say-god-why-me-about-the-bad-things-21927/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I were to say, "God, why me?" about the bad things, then I should have said, "God, why me?" about the good things that happened in my life." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-were-to-say-god-why-me-about-the-bad-things-21927/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Arthur Ashe

Arthur Ashe (July 10, 1943 - February 6, 1993) was a Athlete from USA.

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