"If I were to say, "God, why me?" about the bad things, then I should have said, "God, why me?" about the good things that happened in my life"
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The intent isn’t pious resignation; it’s ethical consistency. Ashe isn’t arguing that tragedy is acceptable. He’s arguing that the story we tell about it matters: either life is a ledger where we’re due rewards and exempt from random loss, or it’s a chaotic distribution of gifts and blows where gratitude and grief can coexist without turning into a lawsuit against fate.
Context sharpens the line. Ashe was a Black champion in a largely white sport, a public intellectual in an era that asked athletes to “stick to sports,” and later a man living with HIV contracted through a blood transfusion. He knew what it meant to be singled out by systems and by chance. That makes the quote feel less like self-help and more like a disciplined refusal to let suffering license bitterness, or let success license arrogance.
The subtext: don’t build a worldview that only activates when you’re losing. If you demand cosmic explanations, be prepared to interrogate your own luck just as ruthlessly.
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| Topic | Gratitude |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ashe, Arthur. (2026, January 15). If I were to say, "God, why me?" about the bad things, then I should have said, "God, why me?" about the good things that happened in my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-were-to-say-god-why-me-about-the-bad-things-21927/
Chicago Style
Ashe, Arthur. "If I were to say, "God, why me?" about the bad things, then I should have said, "God, why me?" about the good things that happened in my life." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-were-to-say-god-why-me-about-the-bad-things-21927/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I were to say, "God, why me?" about the bad things, then I should have said, "God, why me?" about the good things that happened in my life." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-were-to-say-god-why-me-about-the-bad-things-21927/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.






