"If I'm driving to L.A. and have anxiety about making the drive, if I've got Peggy with me, we're cool"
About this Quote
That specificity is the quote's quiet power. Coolidge isn't offering a motivational poster about friendship; she's sketching a lived coping mechanism. Peggy isn't a mystical savior, just a stabilizer - a familiar presence that turns a potentially spiraling interior monologue into something manageable. "We're cool" is doing heavy emotional work while pretending not to. It signals regulation, safety, belonging; it also signals Coolidge's own persona as an artist who can be candid without turning confessional into spectacle.
The subtext is a small rebuke to the lone-genius myth that clings to musicians, especially women in a business that has often demanded both toughness and gratitude. Here, steadiness comes from interdependence, not self-sufficiency. In a culture that treats anxiety like a personal failing or a brand, Coolidge frames it as ordinary, situational, and relational - something that can ease when someone you trust is simply there, sharing the miles.
Quote Details
| Topic | Best Friend |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Coolidge, Rita. (2026, January 16). If I'm driving to L.A. and have anxiety about making the drive, if I've got Peggy with me, we're cool. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-im-driving-to-la-and-have-anxiety-about-making-107791/
Chicago Style
Coolidge, Rita. "If I'm driving to L.A. and have anxiety about making the drive, if I've got Peggy with me, we're cool." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-im-driving-to-la-and-have-anxiety-about-making-107791/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I'm driving to L.A. and have anxiety about making the drive, if I've got Peggy with me, we're cool." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-im-driving-to-la-and-have-anxiety-about-making-107791/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





