"If I'm writing strictly for others, how does that show what I'm experiencing or thinking? I just got to a point where I realized I could be as personal as I wanted to be and people could relate to those situations if they so choose"
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The subtext is about permission. “I just got to a point” signals a hard-earned shift, the moment a working musician stops treating vulnerability as a risk to manage and starts treating it as the point. In an industry that rewards broadness (choruses built like billboards), she’s staking out the counterintuitive idea that specificity travels further. “As personal as I wanted to be” suggests boundaries she previously felt were policed - by label expectations, radio formats, even the internalized fear of seeming self-indulgent.
Then comes the clever reversal: she doesn’t promise relatability; she offers it as an option. “People could relate… if they so choose” reframes connection as agency on the listener’s side, not a demand on the artist’s. That’s emotionally mature and culturally savvy: it respects audiences without pandering to them.
Contextually, it fits a late-90s/early-2000s singer-songwriter lineage where confession became currency, but she’s drawing a line between confession and calculation. The intent isn’t to be “raw” for its own sake; it’s to make songs that can hold the mess of a real interior life and trust that listeners will meet it, not be sold to by it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kreviazuk, Chantal. (2026, January 17). If I'm writing strictly for others, how does that show what I'm experiencing or thinking? I just got to a point where I realized I could be as personal as I wanted to be and people could relate to those situations if they so choose. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-im-writing-strictly-for-others-how-does-that-46626/
Chicago Style
Kreviazuk, Chantal. "If I'm writing strictly for others, how does that show what I'm experiencing or thinking? I just got to a point where I realized I could be as personal as I wanted to be and people could relate to those situations if they so choose." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-im-writing-strictly-for-others-how-does-that-46626/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I'm writing strictly for others, how does that show what I'm experiencing or thinking? I just got to a point where I realized I could be as personal as I wanted to be and people could relate to those situations if they so choose." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-im-writing-strictly-for-others-how-does-that-46626/. Accessed 15 Feb. 2026.


