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Love Quote by George MacDonald

"If instead of a gem, or even a flower, we should cast the gift of a loving thought into the heart of a friend, that would be giving as the angels give"

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MacDonald is running a quiet heist on the Victorian idea of “a gift.” He pits the gem and the flower - objects designed to be possessed, displayed, and to some degree priced - against something deliberately unownable: “the gift of a loving thought.” The verb choice matters. You don’t hand it over like a commodity; you “cast” it, like seed or light, into the “heart of a friend.” The image is intimate and risky: a thought can miss, be misunderstood, land at the wrong time. That vulnerability is part of the moral argument. Real giving isn’t the transfer of value; it’s the willingness to be present in a way you can’t insure or itemize.

The angel line is classic MacDonald: Christianity without the bookkeeping. “As the angels give” doesn’t mean grand miracles; it means giving without leverage. Angels, in his imagination, don’t give to be remembered, to be repaid, or to curate a social identity. They give because love moves outward by nature. The subtext is a critique of performative generosity - the kind that pads reputations and tightens social bonds through obligation.

Context sharpens the point. MacDonald wrote in a century that turned sentiment into an industry: bouquets with coded meanings, jewelry as status, gift-giving as ritualized proof of respectability. Against that, he elevates the small, interior act: the note, the attention, the true seeing of another person. It’s anti-consumerist before consumerism had a name, and it’s also psychologically astute: what actually nourishes friendship isn’t sparkle, it’s recognition.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
MacDonald, George. (2026, January 15). If instead of a gem, or even a flower, we should cast the gift of a loving thought into the heart of a friend, that would be giving as the angels give. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-instead-of-a-gem-or-even-a-flower-we-should-125649/

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MacDonald, George. "If instead of a gem, or even a flower, we should cast the gift of a loving thought into the heart of a friend, that would be giving as the angels give." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-instead-of-a-gem-or-even-a-flower-we-should-125649/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If instead of a gem, or even a flower, we should cast the gift of a loving thought into the heart of a friend, that would be giving as the angels give." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-instead-of-a-gem-or-even-a-flower-we-should-125649/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.

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George MacDonald (December 10, 1824 - September 18, 1905) was a Novelist from Scotland.

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