"If it was necessary to tolerate in other people everything that one permits oneself, life would be unbearable"
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The joke is how it flips “tolerance” into an affliction. Modern moral talk treats tolerance as a virtue you heroically supply to others; Courteline treats it as a logistical nightmare. That’s classic dramatist cynicism: character is less an ethical achievement than a set of excuses arranged to keep daily life moving. His theater lived in the era’s machinery of bourgeois order, where manners, bureaucracy, and marital propriety were costumes everyone wore while cheating on the script backstage.
Subtextually, it’s also a jab at self-knowledge. We can “permit” ourselves plenty because we narrate our motives, our stress, our context. Other people don’t come with voice-over; they arrive as raw behavior. Courteline isn’t advising compassion so much as exposing why compassion is hard: it requires giving strangers the same inner alibis we manufacture effortlessly for ourselves.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Courteline, Georges. (2026, January 16). If it was necessary to tolerate in other people everything that one permits oneself, life would be unbearable. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-it-was-necessary-to-tolerate-in-other-people-121153/
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Courteline, Georges. "If it was necessary to tolerate in other people everything that one permits oneself, life would be unbearable." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-it-was-necessary-to-tolerate-in-other-people-121153/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If it was necessary to tolerate in other people everything that one permits oneself, life would be unbearable." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-it-was-necessary-to-tolerate-in-other-people-121153/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.






