"If it's really so wonderful that both partners have to work to make a living to pay for their house, for health insurance, someone is obviously going to get the short end of the stick"
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The subtext is about bargaining power inside a relationship. When both partners must work just to keep the lights on, time becomes the scarce resource, and someone ends up subsidizing the household with invisible labor: childcare logistics, elder care, cooking, emotional management, the perpetual admin of life. “Short end of the stick” is deliberately blunt, even a little crude, because the imbalance he’s describing isn’t subtle. It’s not a philosophical dilemma; it’s the daily math of exhaustion.
Context matters: Braeden comes from an era when the single-income household was treated as a norm (even if it was always unevenly available by class and race). Speaking now, he’s channeling a common suspicion that what gets celebrated as progress sometimes masks a transfer of risk from institutions to individuals: employers, insurers, and housing markets set the terms, couples absorb the stress. The sting of the quote is that it identifies “choice” as something you only get after the bills are paid.
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| Topic | Relationship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Braeden, Eric. (2026, January 17). If it's really so wonderful that both partners have to work to make a living to pay for their house, for health insurance, someone is obviously going to get the short end of the stick. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-its-really-so-wonderful-that-both-partners-47926/
Chicago Style
Braeden, Eric. "If it's really so wonderful that both partners have to work to make a living to pay for their house, for health insurance, someone is obviously going to get the short end of the stick." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-its-really-so-wonderful-that-both-partners-47926/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If it's really so wonderful that both partners have to work to make a living to pay for their house, for health insurance, someone is obviously going to get the short end of the stick." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-its-really-so-wonderful-that-both-partners-47926/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.






