"If, like Harry Keogh, I could talk to the dead - God, there are an awful lot of people I would like to speak to! Not least my father. Being in the army for 22 years, I didn't see enough of him, and I know there are a great many things I could have learned from him"
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The exclamation points matter. They’re not comic-book melodrama so much as a startled honesty, the kind you get when a writer drops the protective layer of craft and lets longing show. “God, there are an awful lot of people” starts broad, almost playful, then narrows to the real target: his father. That pivot is the subtext in miniature. We tell ourselves we’d consult history’s greats, lost friends, famous mentors. Then the truth surfaces: we mostly want the one person we never got enough time with.
The army detail is a small, devastating line of context. Twenty-two years isn’t just a job; it’s a machine that converts family life into intermittent visits, a parent into a uniform glimpsed in fragments. Lumley frames what’s missing not as affection but as apprenticeship: “things I could have learned.” It’s a writer’s phrasing, but also a son’s. The dead, in his universe, are teachers. In ours, they become questions that no longer have an address.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lumley, Brian. (2026, January 16). If, like Harry Keogh, I could talk to the dead - God, there are an awful lot of people I would like to speak to! Not least my father. Being in the army for 22 years, I didn't see enough of him, and I know there are a great many things I could have learned from him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-like-harry-keogh-i-could-talk-to-the-dead--132012/
Chicago Style
Lumley, Brian. "If, like Harry Keogh, I could talk to the dead - God, there are an awful lot of people I would like to speak to! Not least my father. Being in the army for 22 years, I didn't see enough of him, and I know there are a great many things I could have learned from him." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-like-harry-keogh-i-could-talk-to-the-dead--132012/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If, like Harry Keogh, I could talk to the dead - God, there are an awful lot of people I would like to speak to! Not least my father. Being in the army for 22 years, I didn't see enough of him, and I know there are a great many things I could have learned from him." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-like-harry-keogh-i-could-talk-to-the-dead--132012/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










