"If my life is of no value to my friends it is of none to myself"
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That rhetorical leverage makes sense in Smith's world. As founder of a new religious movement under constant suspicion, he lived amid expulsions, legal harassment, and vigilante violence. Loyalty was not a nicety; it was infrastructure. The line flatters the inner circle by elevating their judgment while quietly warning them that abandonment carries existential stakes. It is the emotional logic of a besieged community: we are only as real as we are defended.
The subtext is the knot between charisma and reciprocity. A prophetic leader needs followers to authenticate the prophecy; followers need the leader to give coherence to their sacrifice. Smith frames that mutual dependence as friendship, a warmer word than "disciples" or "subjects", but the dynamic remains. In a movement where social bonds could mean shelter, secrecy, or rescue, "value" is practical as much as spiritual. The poignancy is genuine, yet it is also a statement designed to keep the group closed, committed, and vigilant against the costs of doubt.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Verified source: History, 1838–1856, Volume F-1 (1 May–8 Aug 1844) (Joseph Smith, Jr., 1856)
Evidence: “if my life is of no value to my friends it is of none to myself”. (Page 148). This wording appears in the Joseph Smith Papers’ transcription of the manuscript church history (History, 1838–1856), volume F-1, on page 148, in the narrative describing accusations of cowardice as Joseph Smith was urged to return and surrender in June 1844. This is the earliest PRIMARY textual witness I could verify directly. However, it is not a contemporaneous verbatim record written by Joseph Smith himself at the moment: the Joseph Smith Papers ‘Source Note’ explains this volume was compiled in Utah Territory in 1856 by clerks under the direction of the Church Historian’s Office (with scribal work by Jonathan Grimshaw and Leo Hawkins). So: the quote is treated as Joseph Smith’s spoken remark (June 1844), but the first verifiable publication/manuscript appearance I can directly point to is this later compiled manuscript history entry (1856), not an 1844 stenographic record. Other candidates (1) In Heaven as It Is on Earth (Samuel Morris Brown, 2012) compilation95.0% ... Smith responded to their complaints : “ If my life is of no value to my friends it is of none to myself . " 3 In ... |
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