"If one by one we counted people out For the least sin, it wouldn't take us long To get so we had no one left to live with. For to be social is to be forgiving"
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Frost's intent is less sentimental than surgical. He isn't asking you to forgive because it's nice. He's warning that society is a practical arrangement with a built-in tolerance for flaw. The subtext is almost anthropological: social life is a compromise between our appetite to moralize and our need for company. "Least sin" does a lot of work here. It's not murder or betrayal; it's the petty, ordinary failures that populate real relationships. Frost is talking about the way communities fracture when they make perfection the price of admission.
Context matters: Frost wrote through eras that loved their purity tests, from Prohibition-minded moralism to Cold War suspicion. Read now, the lines feel like a preemptive critique of cancellation culture without the culture-war theatrics. Frost's final turn, "For to be social is to be forgiving", isn't a Hallmark maxim; it's a definition. If you can't absorb small harms, you can't sustain the messy, necessary project of living with other people.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Frost, Robert. (n.d.). If one by one we counted people out For the least sin, it wouldn't take us long To get so we had no one left to live with. For to be social is to be forgiving. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-one-by-one-we-counted-people-out-for-the-least-28909/
Chicago Style
Frost, Robert. "If one by one we counted people out For the least sin, it wouldn't take us long To get so we had no one left to live with. For to be social is to be forgiving." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-one-by-one-we-counted-people-out-for-the-least-28909/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If one by one we counted people out For the least sin, it wouldn't take us long To get so we had no one left to live with. For to be social is to be forgiving." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-one-by-one-we-counted-people-out-for-the-least-28909/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.






