"If one by one we counted people out For the least sin, it wouldn't take us long To get so we had no one left to live with. For to be social is to be forgiving"
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The bite in Frost's lines is how quickly a moral housekeeping project turns into a loneliness machine. "Counted people out" sounds like bookkeeping or jury duty, as if friendship were an audit where a minor infraction can fail you. Frost pushes that logic to its end point: if we enforce purity "one by one", the purge doesn't stop with the obviously wicked. It ends with an empty room. The menace isn't only judgment; it's the quiet, cumulative habit of disqualifying others for being human.
Frost's intent is less sentimental than surgical. He isn't asking you to forgive because it's nice. He's warning that society is a practical arrangement with a built-in tolerance for flaw. The subtext is almost anthropological: social life is a compromise between our appetite to moralize and our need for company. "Least sin" does a lot of work here. It's not murder or betrayal; it's the petty, ordinary failures that populate real relationships. Frost is talking about the way communities fracture when they make perfection the price of admission.
Context matters: Frost wrote through eras that loved their purity tests, from Prohibition-minded moralism to Cold War suspicion. Read now, the lines feel like a preemptive critique of cancellation culture without the culture-war theatrics. Frost's final turn, "For to be social is to be forgiving", isn't a Hallmark maxim; it's a definition. If you can't absorb small harms, you can't sustain the messy, necessary project of living with other people.
Frost's intent is less sentimental than surgical. He isn't asking you to forgive because it's nice. He's warning that society is a practical arrangement with a built-in tolerance for flaw. The subtext is almost anthropological: social life is a compromise between our appetite to moralize and our need for company. "Least sin" does a lot of work here. It's not murder or betrayal; it's the petty, ordinary failures that populate real relationships. Frost is talking about the way communities fracture when they make perfection the price of admission.
Context matters: Frost wrote through eras that loved their purity tests, from Prohibition-minded moralism to Cold War suspicion. Read now, the lines feel like a preemptive critique of cancellation culture without the culture-war theatrics. Frost's final turn, "For to be social is to be forgiving", isn't a Hallmark maxim; it's a definition. If you can't absorb small harms, you can't sustain the messy, necessary project of living with other people.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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