"If ordinary people complain that I speak too much of myself, I complain that they do not even think of themselves"
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The intent is defensive, but not merely. Montaigne is staking out a new kind of legitimacy: the self as a serious object of knowledge. Writing in the wake of wars of religion and civic instability, he treats introspection as a practical tool, not a salon indulgence. When shared certainties are collapsing, the only stable laboratory is lived experience. That’s why the “I” in his Essays isn’t a vanity project; it’s a method. He makes the personal a testing ground for claims about fear, habit, belief, and contradiction.
The subtext is slyly democratic and quietly elitist at once. Anyone can “think of themselves,” he implies, but most won’t; they prefer the comfort of borrowed scripts. Montaigne’s provocation is that self-knowledge is a civic virtue. A populace that won’t examine itself becomes easy to manipulate, quick to moralize, and slow to understand its own motives. His self-talk is a mirror held up to readers who’d rather not look.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Essays (Les Essais), Book II: "Of Repentance" (Michel de Montaigne, 1580)
Evidence: Le supreme remede à le guarir, c'est faire tout le rebours de ce que ceus icy ordonnent, qui, en défendant le parler de soy, défendent par consequent encore plus de penser à soy. (Book II, Chapter 17 ("De la presumption" / commonly rendered in English as "Of Presumption")). The popular English quote (“If ordinary people complain that I speak too much of myself, I complain that they do not even think of themselves”) appears to be a loose paraphrase/condensation of this passage in Montaigne’s Essais (Book II, ch. 17). I was able to verify the underlying French in a primary text (ARTFL/University of Chicago’s Montaigne project). The exact English wording you supplied does not appear verbatim in this primary source (it is an interpretive translation/paraphrase used by later quote collections). As for 'first published': Montaigne first published Books I–II of the Essais in 1580; Book II, ch. 17 is therefore first published in 1580 (with later revisions in subsequent editions). Other candidates (1) Quote Junkie: Philosophy Edition (Hagopian Institute, 2008)95.0% ... If ordinary people complain that I speak too much of myself , I complain that they do not even think of themselve... |
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"If ordinary people complain that I speak too much of myself, I complain that they do not even think of themselves." FixQuotes, 26 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-ordinary-people-complain-that-i-speak-too-much-35678/. Accessed 17 Mar. 2026.








