"If so many men, so many minds, certainly so many hearts, so many kinds of love"
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The intent is partly democratic and partly ruthless. Tolstoy insists that inner life can’t be standardized, not by etiquette, not by theology, not by the romantic scripts people borrow to feel legitimate. Subtext: when we judge someone else’s relationships, we’re usually defending our own preferred definition of love, not uncovering any universal truth. By pluralizing love into "kinds", he preemptively undermines any narrator’s authority to declare what love is supposed to look like.
Contextually, this sits squarely inside Tolstoy’s larger project: exposing how private emotions get distorted by social performance. In his fiction, love slides between devotion, vanity, hunger for status, desire for rescue, fear of loneliness, and genuine care - often in the same character, sometimes in the same day. The sentence works because it’s structured like an aphorism but lands like a warning: if hearts are many, love is not one thing, and the tragedy is how often we pretend it is.
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| Topic | Love |
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Tolstoy, Leo. (2026, January 17). If so many men, so many minds, certainly so many hearts, so many kinds of love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-so-many-men-so-many-minds-certainly-so-many-32527/
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Tolstoy, Leo. "If so many men, so many minds, certainly so many hearts, so many kinds of love." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-so-many-men-so-many-minds-certainly-so-many-32527/.
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"If so many men, so many minds, certainly so many hearts, so many kinds of love." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-so-many-men-so-many-minds-certainly-so-many-32527/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.








