"If someone is not happy with one thing we either tweak it until they're happy with it. We all know where that line is, where you have to be three hands up"
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Then Thomas snaps the elastic. “We all know where that line is” signals an unspoken professional code: everyone pretends the process is collaborative, but there’s a boundary beyond which compromise becomes self-erasure. The phrase that follows - “where you have to be three hands up” - is wonderfully theatrical and slightly cryptic, suggesting the moment you stop negotiating and start surrendering. You can picture it physically: hands raised in capitulation, or a frantic stagehand’s gesture, a visual shorthand for “enough.” It’s not moral philosophy; it’s a survival tactic.
Contextually, Thomas worked in late-Victorian popular theatre, a world of audiences, managers, and censors with opinions and power. The quote reads like hard-won wisdom from that ecosystem: be adaptable, protect the work, and recognize when “making them happy” turns into handing over the steering wheel.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Thomas, Brandon. (2026, January 16). If someone is not happy with one thing we either tweak it until they're happy with it. We all know where that line is, where you have to be three hands up. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-someone-is-not-happy-with-one-thing-we-either-126136/
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Thomas, Brandon. "If someone is not happy with one thing we either tweak it until they're happy with it. We all know where that line is, where you have to be three hands up." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-someone-is-not-happy-with-one-thing-we-either-126136/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If someone is not happy with one thing we either tweak it until they're happy with it. We all know where that line is, where you have to be three hands up." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-someone-is-not-happy-with-one-thing-we-either-126136/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










