"If someone knows me and likes me or my work, they're more likely to allow me to tell their story. But it also cuts the other way"
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The sly part is the second sentence: “But it also cuts the other way.” Cooper’s acknowledging the trap built into that same visibility. The persona that earns access can also contaminate it. Sources may perform for the brand they think you represent, offering a story calibrated to the anchor they imagine: empathetic, skeptical, establishment, adversarial. Or they may refuse you precisely because they know you - because your network, your past coverage, your perceived politics, or even your tone has already put you in a box. Familiarity becomes a filter.
There’s also an ethical tremor under the pragmatism. “Allow me to tell their story” is polite phrasing for a power dynamic: the journalist as gatekeeper, the subject as raw material, and consent as something negotiated through reputation. Cooper is gesturing at the central tension of modern media celebrity: authenticity is both a tool and a liability. The more your face becomes part of the story, the harder it is to be treated as a neutral vessel for someone else’s.
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Cooper, Anderson. (2026, January 18). If someone knows me and likes me or my work, they're more likely to allow me to tell their story. But it also cuts the other way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-someone-knows-me-and-likes-me-or-my-work-15218/
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Cooper, Anderson. "If someone knows me and likes me or my work, they're more likely to allow me to tell their story. But it also cuts the other way." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-someone-knows-me-and-likes-me-or-my-work-15218/.
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"If someone knows me and likes me or my work, they're more likely to allow me to tell their story. But it also cuts the other way." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-someone-knows-me-and-likes-me-or-my-work-15218/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





