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Parenting & Family Quote by Thomas Paine

"If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace"

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There is a ruthless tenderness in Paine's bargain with history: let the violence land on me so the next generation can breathe. It sounds like parental devotion, but the engine is political. Paine is not romanticizing sacrifice; he's selling a revolution by reframing suffering as an investment with a deadline. Trouble becomes something you can schedule, contain, and morally justify. The line turns chaos into a choice, and choice into duty.

The intent is clarifying and recruiting. Paine wrote for ordinary readers who were being asked to trade stability for uncertainty. By invoking "my child", he drags abstract liberty out of pamphlet theory and into the kitchen. You don't have to understand constitutions to understand what it means to want your kid to sleep without fear. That domestic image makes the radical project feel less like ideology and more like basic caretaking.

The subtext is harder: peace is never free, and it is rarely inherited automatically. Paine implies that postponing conflict doesn't prevent it; it just delegates it downward. There's also a quiet rebuke to cautious moderates: your prudence is not neutrality, it's a bill you hand to your descendants.

Context matters because Paine is writing in the revolutionary pressure-cooker of the late 18th century, when loyalty to empire was framed as order and rebellion as reckless sin. He flips that moral accounting. If trouble is inevitable, virtue lies in absorbing it now, while you still have the agency - and the strength - to fight for a different future.

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Verified source: The American Crisis (No. I) (Thomas Paine, 1776)
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Not a man lives on the continent but fully believes that a separation must some time or other finally take place, and a generous parent should have said, "If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace;" and this single reflection, well applied, is sufficient to awaken every man to duty. (No. I (no stable page number in early pamphlet/newspaper printings)). This line appears in Thomas Paine’s own text in The American Crisis, No. I (commonly dated to its first publication in late 1776; multiple later reprints exist). A widely cited publication date for No. I is December 19, 1776, in the Pennsylvania Journal (often referenced by historians and archives), with additional contemporaneous newspaper reprints occurring shortly afterward (e.g., in Philadelphia papers such as the Pennsylvania Packet in late December 1776 / early January 1777). The quote is frequently shortened in modern quotation collections; the primary-source wording includes the follow-on clause about 'this single reflection...'.
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Paine, Thomas. (2026, February 8). If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-there-must-be-trouble-let-it-be-in-my-day-that-2111/

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Paine, Thomas. "If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace." FixQuotes. February 8, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-there-must-be-trouble-let-it-be-in-my-day-that-2111/.

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"If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-there-must-be-trouble-let-it-be-in-my-day-that-2111/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.

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Thomas Paine (January 29, 1737 - June 8, 1809) was a Writer from England.

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