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Wealth & Money Quote by Larry Bird

"If there was a payment to the bank due, and we needed shoes, she'd get the shoes, and then deal with them guys at the bank. I don't mean she wouldn't pay the bank, but the children always came first"

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The line lands like a quiet rebuttal to the moral mythology of “being responsible.” Bird isn’t praising recklessness; he’s describing a hierarchy. When money is tight, the bank represents an abstract, institutional claim on your future, enforced by men in offices and paperwork. Shoes represent the immediate, physical fact of a kid’s life: growing feet, a scuffed pair in winter, the social sting of showing up visibly poor. The choice isn’t bank versus shoes; it’s dignity versus bureaucracy.

Bird’s plainspoken cadence does the heavy lifting. “Them guys at the bank” is doing cultural work: it shrinks power down to something human-sized, even negotiable. The bank becomes a group you can face later, while the children are non-negotiable now. He also builds in a defensive realism - “I don't mean she wouldn't pay the bank” - anticipating the judgment that poor families are “irresponsible,” and swatting it away. The mother figure is framed as practical, not sentimental: she pays debts, but refuses to let debt set the family’s moral agenda.

Context matters: Bird’s Midwestern, working-class origin story has always been part of his public meaning, the contrast to glamour franchises and superstar excess. This anecdote turns that biography into an ethic. It explains a toughness that isn’t about bravado; it’s about priorities learned early, when survival required choosing people over systems and living with the confrontation afterward.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bird, Larry. (2026, January 16). If there was a payment to the bank due, and we needed shoes, she'd get the shoes, and then deal with them guys at the bank. I don't mean she wouldn't pay the bank, but the children always came first. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-there-was-a-payment-to-the-bank-due-and-we-133790/

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Bird, Larry. "If there was a payment to the bank due, and we needed shoes, she'd get the shoes, and then deal with them guys at the bank. I don't mean she wouldn't pay the bank, but the children always came first." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-there-was-a-payment-to-the-bank-due-and-we-133790/.

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"If there was a payment to the bank due, and we needed shoes, she'd get the shoes, and then deal with them guys at the bank. I don't mean she wouldn't pay the bank, but the children always came first." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-there-was-a-payment-to-the-bank-due-and-we-133790/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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