"If they don't care about me, how can they possibly care about anyone else?"
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That structure matters. It flips the usual hierarchy of public argument, where people are asked to sacrifice their particular story to a bigger cause. McCorvey insists the opposite: the big cause should be accountable to the people it claims to defend. The subtext is suspicion of movements and institutions that love the idea of “the vulnerable” but bristle at the actual vulnerable when they talk back, need resources, make messy choices, or refuse to stay in a tidy narrative.
Context sharpens the edge. As the “Jane Roe” of Roe v. Wade, McCorvey spent decades being claimed, dismissed, recruited, and reinterpreted across America’s abortion wars, her biography treated like contested property. That lived experience makes the question less rhetorical than diagnostic: are you caring, or are you curating virtue? The line lands because it exposes a cultural habit of outsourcing empathy to slogans, while the person at the center gets ignored the moment she stops being useful.
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| Topic | Betrayal |
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"If they don't care about me, how can they possibly care about anyone else?" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-they-dont-care-about-me-how-can-they-possibly-75486/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





