"If we change the definition of marriage to be more inclusive, then it is logical to argue that we should broaden the definition so that won't exclude anyone"
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The subtext is a familiar rhetorical trap in marriage-equality debates of the 2000s and early 2010s. By treating “more inclusive” as an infinite escalator, Kingston sidesteps the actual legal and social claim on the table (same-sex couples seeking equal recognition within an existing institution) and invites the audience to imagine an absurd next step without naming it. The vagueness is strategic: “anyone” can conjure polygamy, incest, or even non-human hypotheticals, letting opponents of change outsource the scaremongering to the listener’s imagination while keeping the speaker’s hands clean.
Context matters: as a Republican congressman, Kingston was speaking from inside a party coalition that leaned heavily on cultural-conservative definitions of family as a proxy for order, tradition, and electoral identity. The intent isn’t to debate marriage’s meaning so much as to shift the burden of proof. If inclusion is portrayed as logically boundless, then the safest, “rational” option becomes no change at all.
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Kingston, Jack. (2026, January 15). If we change the definition of marriage to be more inclusive, then it is logical to argue that we should broaden the definition so that won't exclude anyone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-change-the-definition-of-marriage-to-be-164827/
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Kingston, Jack. "If we change the definition of marriage to be more inclusive, then it is logical to argue that we should broaden the definition so that won't exclude anyone." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-change-the-definition-of-marriage-to-be-164827/.
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"If we change the definition of marriage to be more inclusive, then it is logical to argue that we should broaden the definition so that won't exclude anyone." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-change-the-definition-of-marriage-to-be-164827/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




