"If we could see ourselves as others see us, we would vanish on the spot"
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The intent is surgical cynicism: identity as a tolerable hallucination. “Vanish” isn’t just embarrassment; it’s ontological collapse. If the self is partly a story we tell in the privacy of our own narration, then “others” represent the hostile edit: their indifference, their misreadings, their casual reductions. You’re not the protagonist there; you’re a trait, a rumor, a mood in someone else’s afternoon. Total access to that external perspective would reveal how contingent and unflattering your inner myth is, and the myth is doing most of the work of keeping you upright.
Context matters. Writing in the shadow of war, exile, and ideological fervor, Cioran distrusts grand humanist consolations. He specializes in anti-comfort: aphorisms that puncture the modern promise that more insight equals more freedom. Read now, it also feels eerily social-media-ready: a culture of relentless visibility where being “seen” is supposed to validate you. Cioran’s punchline is that too much visibility doesn’t confirm the self; it exposes how little there is to confirm.
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Cioran, Emile M. (2026, January 14). If we could see ourselves as others see us, we would vanish on the spot. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-could-see-ourselves-as-others-see-us-we-60139/
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Cioran, Emile M. "If we could see ourselves as others see us, we would vanish on the spot." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-could-see-ourselves-as-others-see-us-we-60139/.
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"If we could see ourselves as others see us, we would vanish on the spot." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-could-see-ourselves-as-others-see-us-we-60139/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.









