"If we had loads of money as a family, things would be different and they'd come to visit more and I'd get to spend more time here. But I'm laying down roots in America so when I'm there, just being at home, it's harder to break away from that"
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The first sentence runs on like a confession, and that’s part of its power. “They’d come to visit more” lands with a sting because it frames love as willing but impeded, suggesting no grand feud, just the slow erosion of distance and cost. It’s a musician’s version of the backstage truth: success doesn’t automatically buy intimacy; it can even complicate it. Being a public figure doesn’t exempt you from the banal math of flights, time off, and competing obligations.
Then the pivot: “I’m laying down roots in America.” Roots are supposed to mean stability, chosen identity, a life built rather than toured. But he flips the metaphor into a trap. Home becomes adhesive. Once you belong somewhere, leaving isn’t just travel; it’s a rupture. The subtext is immigrant-adjacent without being melodramatic: you can love where you came from and still feel your life re-centering elsewhere, until “there” and “home” stop being interchangeable.
It works because it refuses the clean narrative of fame as escape. Allen is describing a modern family dilemma: connection as a resource, not a guarantee, and belonging as something that costs.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Allen, Rick. (n.d.). If we had loads of money as a family, things would be different and they'd come to visit more and I'd get to spend more time here. But I'm laying down roots in America so when I'm there, just being at home, it's harder to break away from that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-had-loads-of-money-as-a-family-things-would-106561/
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Allen, Rick. "If we had loads of money as a family, things would be different and they'd come to visit more and I'd get to spend more time here. But I'm laying down roots in America so when I'm there, just being at home, it's harder to break away from that." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-had-loads-of-money-as-a-family-things-would-106561/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If we had loads of money as a family, things would be different and they'd come to visit more and I'd get to spend more time here. But I'm laying down roots in America so when I'm there, just being at home, it's harder to break away from that." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-had-loads-of-money-as-a-family-things-would-106561/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.







