"If we had to choose one American Idol to go out to dinner with, it would be Fantasia. There are no airs and graces about her... I like her"
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“There are no airs and graces about her” is classic Cowell code. It flatters Fantasia by positioning her as unpretentious, but it also draws a line between acceptable ambition and the kind that reads as “diva.” The phrase carries a faintly classed, faintly gendered edge: women in pop are often punished for polish that signals entitlement, and rewarded for “realness” that signals gratitude. Cowell’s praise offers belonging, but only on terms that keep her safely “down to earth.”
The dinner detail matters because it reframes the idol machine into intimacy. Viewers vote for a voice; Cowell sells a person you could imagine across a table from you. That’s the subtextual bargain of American Idol-era celebrity: relatability as a performance, proximity as a product.
Then he undercuts even that with the blunt tag: “I like her.” Short, boyish, almost disarming. It’s affect, not analysis - a calculated softening from TV’s designated hard judge. Fantasia gets the endorsement; Cowell gets the image of discernment with a human face.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cowell, Simon. (2026, January 17). If we had to choose one American Idol to go out to dinner with, it would be Fantasia. There are no airs and graces about her... I like her. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-had-to-choose-one-american-idol-to-go-out-58629/
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Cowell, Simon. "If we had to choose one American Idol to go out to dinner with, it would be Fantasia. There are no airs and graces about her... I like her." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-had-to-choose-one-american-idol-to-go-out-58629/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If we had to choose one American Idol to go out to dinner with, it would be Fantasia. There are no airs and graces about her... I like her." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-had-to-choose-one-american-idol-to-go-out-58629/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





