"If we help an educated man's daughter to go to Cambridge are we not forcing her to think not about education but about war? - not how she can learn, but how she can fight in order that she might win the same advantages as her brothers?"
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The sly force of the question is its refusal to romanticize merit. Woolf makes the daughter’s ambition sound less like an intellectual calling and more like a trench campaign for scraps of institutional legitimacy. “War” here is not metaphor; it is the governing metaphor of interwar Britain, a society still haunted by World War I and sliding toward another. Woolf’s subtext is that patriarchy and militarism share a bloodstream: hierarchy, competition, obedience to tradition, the fetish of victory. If women must “fight” to obtain “the same advantages,” the university becomes another battlefield where success means assimilation, not transformation.
Context matters: Woolf wrote from a world where women had only recently gained limited political rights and where Oxbridge remained a male citadel in practice and culture. The quote’s intent isn’t to argue against educating women; it’s to ask what kind of education is worth pursuing if the price is adopting the very combative values that keep producing war, inequality, and “advantages” rationed by gender.
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Woolf, Virginia. (2026, January 17). If we help an educated man's daughter to go to Cambridge are we not forcing her to think not about education but about war? - not how she can learn, but how she can fight in order that she might win the same advantages as her brothers? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-help-an-educated-mans-daughter-to-go-to-28321/
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Woolf, Virginia. "If we help an educated man's daughter to go to Cambridge are we not forcing her to think not about education but about war? - not how she can learn, but how she can fight in order that she might win the same advantages as her brothers?" FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-help-an-educated-mans-daughter-to-go-to-28321/.
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"If we help an educated man's daughter to go to Cambridge are we not forcing her to think not about education but about war? - not how she can learn, but how she can fight in order that she might win the same advantages as her brothers?" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-help-an-educated-mans-daughter-to-go-to-28321/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.











