"If we need to be reminded to love one another, then we have already lost sight of the very essence of our existence"
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Notice the quiet escalation built into the structure. "If we need to be reminded" frames the problem as cognitive and cultural, not merely individual. "Then we have already lost sight" suggests a gradual drift, the kind that happens when daily incentives reward competition, suspicion, and self-branding. By the time love becomes an item on the to-do list, it has been demoted from instinct to performance. Johnson implies that reminders can become alibis: we post the quote, share the meme, wear the ribbon, and feel momentarily absolved without changing how we treat people at close range.
"Essence of our existence" is deliberately grand, almost metaphysical, but it functions as a pressure tactic. It denies the reader the comfort of thinking this is about being nicer; it reframes lovelessness as an existential failure, a misreading of what life is for. The context feels contemporary: a world of outrage cycles, algorithmic sorting, and transactional relationships where empathy gets flattened into content. Johnson's intent is to make "reminder culture" feel embarrassing - a sign we have normalized disconnection enough to need prompts for the obvious.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Johnson, Darren L. (2026, January 16). If we need to be reminded to love one another, then we have already lost sight of the very essence of our existence. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-need-to-be-reminded-to-love-one-another-87981/
Chicago Style
Johnson, Darren L. "If we need to be reminded to love one another, then we have already lost sight of the very essence of our existence." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-need-to-be-reminded-to-love-one-another-87981/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If we need to be reminded to love one another, then we have already lost sight of the very essence of our existence." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-need-to-be-reminded-to-love-one-another-87981/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.











