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Happiness Quote by Charles de Montesquieu

"If we only wanted to be happy, it would be easy; but we want to be happier than other people, and that is almost always difficult, since we think them happier than they are"

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Happiness, Montesquieu suggests, isn’t hard; the arms race we build around it is. The line lands because it yanks pleasure out of the private realm and drops it into the marketplace of status, where contentment stops being a feeling and becomes a ranking. “If we only wanted to be happy” is a deliberately modest premise, almost comically reasonable. Then he pivots: we don’t want happiness, we want comparative advantage. That turn is the knife. It’s not that joy is scarce; it’s that we turn it into a zero-sum sport.

The subtext is proto-modern and a little ruthless: envy is less an emotion than a social technology. It organizes desire by reference to others, and it guarantees dissatisfaction because the metric is unstable. We don’t measure ourselves against people’s inner lives; we measure ourselves against their projected lives. Montesquieu’s final clause is the quiet punchline: “since we think them happier than they are.” The obstacle isn’t other people’s happiness; it’s our misperception of it. He’s diagnosing a cognitive error centuries before “social comparison theory” or the Instagram feed: we overestimate others’ satisfaction and underestimate their mess, then treat that illusion as evidence in the case against our own lives.

Context matters: an Enlightenment thinker watching courtly competition, vanity, and reputation function as political and social currency. He’s not offering a self-help hack so much as a critique of how societies train people to convert well-being into prestige. The intent is corrective and slightly sardonic: if your happiness depends on outperforming a fantasy, you’ve volunteered for a game you can’t win.

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Charles de Montesquieu

Charles de Montesquieu (January 18, 1689 - February 10, 1755) was a Philosopher from France.

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